\nNarrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:\n \n\nSa`d bin 'Ubada became sick and the Prophet (ﷺ) along with `Abdur Rahman bin `Auf, Sa`d bin Abi \nWaqqas and `Abdullah bin Mas`ud visited him to inquire about his health. When he came to him, he \nfound him surrounded by his household and he asked, "Has he died?" They said, "No, O Allah's \nApostle." The Prophet (ﷺ) wept and when the people saw the weeping of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) (p.b.u.h) they all \nwept. He said, "Will you listen? Allah does not punish for shedding tears, nor for the grief of the heart \nbut he punishes or bestows His Mercy because of this." He pointed to his tongue and added, "The \ndeceased is punished for the wailing of his relatives over him." `Umar used to beat with a stick and \nthrow stones and put dust over the faces (of those who used to wail over the dead).\n

\nNarrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:\n \n\nSa`d bin 'Ubada became sick and the Prophet (ﷺ) along with `Abdur Rahman bin `Auf, Sa`d bin Abi \nWaqqas and `Abdullah bin Mas`ud visited him to inquire about his health. When he came to him, he \nfound him surrounded by his household and he asked, "Has he died?" They said, "No, O Allah's \nApostle." The Prophet (ﷺ) wept and when the people saw the weeping of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) (p.b.u.h) they all \nwept. He said, "Will you listen? Allah does not punish for shedding tears, nor for the grief of the heart \nbut he punishes or bestows His Mercy because of this." He pointed to his tongue and added, "The \ndeceased is punished for the wailing of his relatives over him." `Umar used to beat with a stick and \nthrow stones and put dust over the faces (of those who used to wail over the dead).\n

\nحَدَّثَنَا أَصْبَغُ، عَنِ ابْنِ وَهْبٍ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرٌو، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ الأَنْصَارِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ قَالَ اشْتَكَى سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ شَكْوَى لَهُ فَأَتَاهُ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَعُودُهُ مَعَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ وَسَعْدِ بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ وَعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ ـ رضى الله عنهم ـ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ فَوَجَدَهُ فِي غَاشِيَةِ أَهْلِهِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ قَدْ قَضَى ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالُوا لاَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ‏.‏ فَبَكَى النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَلَمَّا رَأَى الْقَوْمُ بُكَاءَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بَكَوْا فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَلاَ تَسْمَعُونَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لاَ يُعَذِّبُ بِدَمْعِ الْعَيْنِ، وَلاَ بِحُزْنِ الْقَلْبِ، وَلَكِنْ يُعَذِّبُ بِهَذَا ـ وَأَشَارَ إِلَى لِسَانِهِ ـ أَوْ يَرْحَمُ وَإِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ ‏"‏‏.‏ وَكَانَ عُمَرُ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ يَضْرِبُ فِيهِ بِالْعَصَا، وَيَرْمِي بِالْحِجَارَةِ وَيَحْثِي بِالتُّرَابِ‏.‏