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Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Sahl ibn Sad
as-Saidi told him that Uwaymir al-Ajlani came to Asim ibn Adi al-
Ansari and said to him, "Asim! What do you think a man who finds
another man with his wife should do? Should he kill him and then be
killed himself, or what should .he do? Asim! ask the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, about that for me."
Asim asked the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, about it. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, was revolted by the questions and reproved them until what
he heard from the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace. was intolerable for Asim. When Asim returned to his people,
Uwaymir came to him and said, " Asim! what did the Messenger of Allah,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say to you?" Asim said to
Uwaymir, "You didn't bring me any good. The Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, was revolted by the question
which I asked him." Uwaymir said, "By Allah! I will not stop until I
ask him about it!" Uwaymir stood up and went to the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in the middle of the
people and said, "Messenger of Allah! What do you think a man who
finds another man with his wife should do? Should he kill him and then
be killed himself, or what should he do?" The Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Something has been sent
down about you and your wife, so go and bring her."
Sahl
continued, "They mutually cursed one another in the presence of the
Messenger, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and I was present
with the people. When they finished cursing each other, Uwaymir said,
'I shall have lied about her, Messenger of Allah, if I keep her,' and
pronounced the divorce three times before the Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, ordered him to do it."
Malik said that Ibn Shihab said, "That was how the sunna of a couple
mutually cursing each other was established (lian)."
Malik said, "What is done among us when a slave divorces a slave-
girl when she is a slave and then she is set free, is that her idda is
the idda of a slave-girl, and her being set free does not change her
idda whether or not he can still return to her. Her idda is not
altered."
Malik added, "The hadd-punishment which a slave
incurs is the same as this. When he is freed after he has incurred but
before the punishment has been executed, his hadd is the hadd of the
slave."
Malik said, "When a free man divorces a slave-girl
three times, her idda is two periods. When a slave divorces a free
woman twice, her idda is three periods."
Malik said about a
man who had a slave-girl as a wife, and he bought her and set her
free, ''Her idda is the idda of a slave-girl, i.e. two periods, as
long as he has not had intercourse with her. If he has had intercourse
with her after buying her and before he set her free, she only has to
wait until one period has passed . "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Yazid, the mawla
of al-Aswad ibn Sufyan from Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman ibn Awf from
Fatima bint Qays that Abu Amr ibn Hafs divorced her absolutely while
he was away in Syria. His agent sent her some barley and she was
displeased with it, saying, "By Allah, I don't expect anything from
you." She went to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, and mentioned it to him. He said, "You have no
maintenance." He then ordered her to spend her idda in the house of
Umm Sharik. Then he said, "This is a woman whom my companions visit.
Spend the idda in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum. He is a blind man and
you can undress at his home. When you are free to remarry, tell me."
She continued, "When I was free to remarry, I mentioned to
him that Muawiya ibn Abi Sufyan and Abu Jahm ibn Hisham had asked for
me in marriage. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, said, 'As for Abu Jahm, he never puts down his stick from
his shoulder (i.e. he is always travelling), and as for Muawiya he is
a poor man with no property. Marry Usama ibn Zayd.' I objected to him
and he said, 'Marry Usama ibn Zayd,' so I married him, and Allah put
good in it and I was content with him."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Said ibn Ishaq ibn Kab ibn
Ujra from his paternal aunt, Zaynab bint Kab ibn Ujra that al-Furaya
bint Malik ibn Sinan, the sister of Abu Said al-Khudri, informed her
that she went to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, and asked to be able to return to her people among the Banu
Khudra since her husband had gone out in search of some of his slaves
who had run away and he had caught up with them near al-Qudum, (which
is 6 miles from Madina), and they had killed him.
She said,
"I asked the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, if I could return to my people in the Banu Khudra, as my
husband had not left me in a dwelling which belonged to him, and had
left me no maintenance. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him
and grant him peace, said,'Yes.' So I left. When I was in the
courtyard, the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, called me or summoned me, and I answered him. He said, 'What
did you say?' I repeated the story about my husband. He said, 'Stay in
your house until what is written reaches its term.' I did the idda in
the house for four months and ten days."
She added, "When
Uthman ibn Affan sent for me, I told him that, and he followed it and
made decisions by it."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Marwan ibn
al-Hakam decided about a man who had made a vow to abstain from
intercourse with his wife, that when four months had passed, it was a
divorce and he could return to her as long as she was in her idda.
Malik added, "That was also the opinion of Ibn Shihab."
Malik said that if a man made a vow to abstain from intercourse
with his wife and at the end of four months he declared his intent to
continue to abstain, he was divorced. He could go back to his wife,
but if he did not have intercourse with her before the end of her
idda, he had no access to her and he could not go back to her unless
he had an excuse - illness, imprisonment, or a similar excuse. His
return to her maintained her as his wife. If her idda passed and then
he married her after that and did not have intercourse with her until
four months had passed and he declared his intent to continue to
abstain, divorce was applied to him by the first vow. If four months
passed, and he had not returned to her, he had no idda against her nor
access because he had married her and then divorced her before
touching her.
Malik said that a man who made a vow to abstain
from intercourse with his wife and continued to abstain after four
months and so divorced her, but then returned and did not touch her
and four months were completed before her idda was completed, did not
have to declare his intent and divorce did not befall him. If he had
intercourse with her before the end of her idda, he was entitled to
her. If her idda passed before he had intercourse with her, he had no
access to her. This is what Malik preferred of what he had heard on
the subject.
Malik said that if a man made a vow to abstain
from intercourse with his wife and then divorced her, and the four
months of the vow were completed before completion of the idda of the
divorce, it counted as two pronouncements of divorce. If he declared
his intention to continue to abstain and the idda of the divorce
finished before the four months the vow of abstention was not a
divorce. That was because the four months had passed and she was not
his on that day.
Malik said, "If someone makes a vow not to
have intercourse with his wife for a day or a month and then waits
until more than four months have passed, it is not ila. Ila only
applies to someone who vows more than four months. As for the one who
vows not to have intercourse with his wife for four months or less
than that, I do not think that it is ila because when the term enters
into it at which it stops, he comes out of his oath and he does not
have to declare his intention."
Malik said, "If someone vows
to his wife not to have intercourse with her until her child has been
weaned, that is not ila. I have heard that Ali ibn Abi Talib was asked
about that and he did not think that it was ila."
Zaynab said, "I heard my mother, Umm Salama, the wife of the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say that a woman
came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, and said, 'Messenger of Allah! My daughter's husband died, and
her eyes are troubling her, can she put kohl on them?' The Messenger
of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'No' two or
three times. Then he said, 'It is only four months and ten days. In
the Jahiliyya, none of you threw away the piece of dung until a year
had passed.' "
Humayd ibn Nafi said, "I asked Zaynab to
explain what 'throwing away the piece of dung at the end of a year'
meant. Zaynab said, 'In the Jahiliyya when a woman's husband died, she
went into a small tent and dressed in the worst of clothes. She did
not touch perfume or anything until a year had passed. Then she was
brought an animal - a donkey, a sheep, or a bird, and she would break
her idda with it, by rubbing her body against it (taftaddu). Rarely
did she break her idda with anything (by rubbing herself against it)
but that it died. Then she would come out and would be given a piece
of dung. She would throw it away and then return to whatever she
wished of perfumes or whatever.' "
Malik explained,
'Taftaddu' means to wipe her skin with it in the same way as with a
healing charm."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Ali ibn Abi
Talib said about the two arbiters about whom Allah, the Exalted,
said,"If you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbiter from
his people, and an arbiter from her people. If they desire to set
things aright, Allah will make peace between them, surely Allah is
Knowing, Aware," (Sura 4 ayat 35), that the separation and the joining
were overseen by the two of them.
Malik said, "That is the
best of what I have heard from the people of knowledge. Whatever the
two arbiters say concerning separation or joining is taken into
consideration "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Damra ibn Said al-Mazini from
al-Hajjaj ibn Amr ibn Ghaziya that he was sitting with Zayd ibn Thabit
when Ibn Fahd came to him. He was from the Yemen. He said, "Abu Said!
I have slave-girls. None of the wives in my keep are more pleasing to
me than them, and not all of them please me so much that I want a
child by them, shall I then practise coitus interruptus?" Zayd ibn
Thabit said, "Give an opinion, Hajjaj!" "I said, 'May Allah forgive
you! We sit with you in order to learn from you!' He said, 'Give an
opinion! 'I said, 'She is your field, if you wish, water it, and if
you wish, leave it thirsty. I heard that from Zayd.' Zayd said, 'He
has spoken the truth.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab that Said ibn al-
Musayyab said, "The idda of the woman who bleeds constantly is a
year."
Malik said, "What is done among us about a divorced
woman whose periods stop when her husband divorces her is that she
waits nine months. If she has not had a period in them, she has an
idda of three months. If she has a period before the end of the three
months, she accepts the period. If another nine months pass without
her having a period, she does an idda of three months. If she has a
second period before the end of those three months, she accepts the
period. If nine months then pass without a period, she does an idda of
three months. If she has a third period, the idda of the period is
complete. If she does not have a period, she waits three months, and
then she is free to marry. Her husband can return to her before she
becomes free to marry unless he made her divorce irrevocable."
Malik said, "The sunna with us is that when a man divorces his
wife and has the option to return to her, and she does part of her
idda and then he returns to her and then parts from her before he has
had intercourse with her, she does not add to what has passed of her
idda. Her husband has wronged himself and erred if he returned to her
and had no need of her."
Malik said, "What is done among us
is that if a woman becomes a muslim while her husband is a kafir and
then he becomes muslim, he is entitled to her as long as she is in her
idda. If her idda is finished, he has no access to her. If he
remarries her after the end of her idda, however, that is not counted
as divorce. Islam removed her from him without divorce."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that his
father said, "It used to be that a man would divorce his wife and then
return to her before her idda was over, and that was alright, even if
he divorced her a thousand times. The man went to his wife and then
divorced her and when the end of her idda was in sight, he took her
back and then divorced her and said, 'No! By Allah, I will not go to
you and you will never be able to marry again.' Allah, the Blessed,
the Exalted, sent down, 'Divorce is twice, then honourable retention
or setting free kindly.' People then turned towards divorce in a new
light from that day whether or not they were divorced or not
divorced."
Zaynab said, "I went to the house of Zaynab bint Jahsh, the wife
of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when her
brother had died. She called for perfume and put some on and said, 'By
Allah! I have no need of perfume, but I heard the Messenger of Allah,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'It is not halal for a
woman who trusts in Allah and the Last Day to abstain from adornment
in mourning for someone who has died for more than three nights,
except for four months and ten days for a husband.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafic from Abdullah ibn Umar
that a man cursed his wife in the time of the Messenger of Allah, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, and disowned her child. The
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, separated
them and gave the child to the woman.
Malik said, "Allah the
Blessed, the Exalted, said, 'The testimony of men who accuse their
wives but do not have any witnesses except themselves is to testify by
Allah four times that he is being truthful, and a fifth time, that the
curse of Allah will be upon him, if he should be a liar. She will
avoid punishment if she testifies by Allah four times that he is a
liar, and a fifth time, that the wrath of Allah shall be upon her, if
he should be telling the truth. ' "(Sura 24 ayat 6).
Malik
said, "The sunna with us is that those who curse each other are never
to be remarried. If the man calls himself a liar, (i.e. takes back his
accusation), he is flogged with the hadd-punishment, and the child is
given to him, and his wife can never return to him. There is no doubt
or dispute about this sunna among us. "
Malik said, "If a man
separates from his wife by an irrevocable divorce by which he cannot
return to her, and then he denies the paternity of the child she is
carrying, whilst she claims that he is the father, and it is possible
by the timing, that he be so, he must curse her, and the child is not
recognised as his."
Malik said, "That is what is done among
us, and it is what I have heard from the people of knowledge."
Malik said that a man who accused his wife after he had divorced
her trebly while she was pregnant, and he had at first accepted being
the father but then claimed that he had seen her committing adultery
before he separated from her, was flogged with the hadd-punishment,
and did not curse her.
If he denied the paternity of her
child after he had divorced her trebly, and he had not previously
accepted it, then he cursed her.
Malik said, "This is what I
have heard."
Malik said, "The slave is in the same position
as the free man as regards making accusations and invoking mutual
curses (lian). He acts in the lian as the free man acts although there
is no hadd applied for slandering a female-slave."
Malik
said, "The muslim slave-girl and the christian and jewish free woman
also do lian when a free muslim marries one of them and has
intercourse with her. That is because Allah - may He be blessed and
Exalted, said in His Book, 'As for those who accuse their wives,' and
they are their wives. This is what is done among us.
Malik
said that a man who did the lian with his wife, and then stopped and
called himself a liar after one or two oaths and he had not cursed
himself in the fifth one, had to be flogged with the hadd-punishment,
but they did not have to be separated.
Malik said that if a
man divorced his wife and then after three months the woman said, "I
am pregnant," and he denied paternity, then he had to do lian.
Malik said that the husband of a female slave who pronounced the
lian on her and then bought her, was not to have intercourse with her,
even if he owned her. The sunna which had been handed down about a
couple who mutually cursed each other in the lian was that they were
never to return to each other.
Malik said that when a man
pronounced the lian against his wife before he had consummated the
marriage, she only had half of the bride price.
Yahya related to me that Malik heard Ibn Shihab say, "When a man
gives his wife the right of choice, and she chooses him, that is not
divorce."
Malik added, "That is the best of what I have
heard."
Malik said that if a woman who had been given the
right of choice by her husband chose herself, she was divorced trebly.
If her husband said, "But I only gave her the right of choice in one,"
he had none of that. That was the best of what he had heard.
Malik said, "If the man gives his wife the right of choice and she
says, 'I accept one', and he says, 'I did not mean that, I have given
the right of choice in all three together,' then if she only accepts
one, she remains with him in her marriage, and that is not separation
if Allah, the Exalted wills."
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had
heard that Said ibn al-Musayyab and Sulayman ibn Yasar and Ibn Shihab
all said that a woman who divorced for a compensation had the same
idda as a divorced woman - three periods.
Malik said that a
woman who ransomed herself could not return to her husband except by a
new marriage. If someone married her and then separated from her
before he had intercourse with her, there was no idda against her from
the recent marriage, and she rested on her first idda.
Malik
said, "That is the best that I have heard on the matter."
Malik said, "If, when a woman offers to compensate her husband, he
divorces her straightaway, then that compensation is confirmed for
him. If he makes no response, and then at a later date, does divorce
her, he is not entitled to that compensation."
108 Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, visited
Umm Salama while she was in mourning for Abu Salama and she had put
aloes on her eyes. He said, "What is this, Umm Salama?" She said, "It
is only aloes, Messenger of Allah." He said, "Put it on at night and
wipe it off in the daytime."
Malik said, "The mourning of a
young girl who has not yet had a menstrual period takes the same form
as the mourning of one who has had a period. She avoids what a mature
woman avoids if her husband dies."
Malik said, "A slave-girl
mourns her husband when he dies for two months and five nights like
her idda.''
Malik said, "An umm walad does not have to mourn
when her master dies, and a slave-girl does not have to mourn when her
master dies. Mourning is for those with husbands."
Yahya related. to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Amra
bint Abd ar-Rahman told him from Habiba bint Sahl al-Ansari that she
had been the wife of Thabit ibn Qays ibn Shammas. The Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out for the dawn
prayer, and found Habiba bint Sahl at his door in the darkness. The
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to
her, "Who is this?" She said, "I am Habiba bint Sahl, Messenger of
Allah." He said, "What do you want?" She said, "That Thabit ibn Qays
and I separate." When her husband, Thabit ibn Qays came, the Messenger
of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to him, "This
is Habiba bint Sahl. She mentioned what Allah willed that she
mention." Habiba said, "Messenger of Allah, all that he has given me
is with me!" The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said to Thabit ibn Qays, "Take it from her," and he took it
from her, and she stayed in the house of her family.
Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Said ibn
al-Musayyab that Umar ibn al-Khattab said, "The woman who loses her
husband and does not know where he is, waits for four years, then she
does idda for four months, and then she is free to marry."
Malik said, "If she marries after her idda is over, regardless of
whether the new husband has consummated the marriage or not, her first
husband has no means of access to her."
Malik said, "That is
what is done among us and if her husband reaches her before she has
remarried, he is more entitled to her."
Malik said that he
had seen people disapproving of someone who said that one of the
people (of knowledge) attributed to Umar ibn al-Khattab that he said,
"Her first husband chooses when he comes either her bride-price or his
wife."
Malik said, "I have heard that Umar ibn al-Khattab,
speaking about a woman whose husband divorced her while he was absent
from her, and then he took her back and the news of his taking her
back had not reached her, while the news of his divorcing her had, and
so she had married again, said, 'Her first husband who divorced her
has no means of access to her whether or not the new husband has
consummated the marriage.' "
Malik said, "This is what I like
the best of what I heard about the missing man."
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdu Rabbih ibn Said ibn Qays
that Abu Salama ibn Abd ar-Rahman said that Abdullah ibn Abbas and Abu
Hurayra were asked when a pregnant woman whose husband had died could
remarry. Ibn Abbas said, "At the end of two periods." Abu Hurayra
said, "When she gives birth, she is free to marry." Abu Salama ibn Abd
ar-Rahman visited Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, and asked her about it Umm Salama said,
''Subaya al-Aslamiya gave birth half a month after the death of her
husband, and two men asked to marry her. One was young and the other
was old. She preferred the young man and so the older man said, 'You
are not free to marry yet.' Her family were away and he hoped that
when her family came, they would give her to him. She went to the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he
said, 'You are free to marry, so marry whomever you wish.' "
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr ibn
Muhammad ibn Amr ibn Hazm from Humayd ibn Nafi that Zaynab bint Abi
Salama related these three traditions to him. Zaynab said, "I visited
Umm Habiba, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, when her father Abu Sufyan ibn Harb had died. Umm Habiba called
for a yellowy perfume perhaps khaluq or something else. She rubbed the
perfume first on a slave-girl and she then wiped it on the sides of
her face and said, 'By Allah! I have no need of perfume but I heard
the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say,
'It is not halal for a woman who trusts in Allah and the Last Day to
abstain from adornment in mourning for someone who has died, for more
than three nights, except for four months and ten days for a husband.'
"
Yahya related to me from Malik from Rabia ibn Abi Abd ar-Rahman
from Muhammad ibn Yahya ibn Habban that Ibn Muhayriz said, "I went
into the mosque and saw Abu Said al-Khudri and so I sat by him and
asked him about coitus interruptus. Abu Said al-Khudri said, 'We went
out with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, on the expedition to the Banu al-Mustaliq. We took some Arabs
prisoner, and we desired the women as celibacy was hard for us. We
wanted the ransom, so we wanted to practise coitus interruptus. We
said, 'Shall we practise coitus interruptus while the Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, is among us before we
ask him?' We asked him about that and he said, 'You don't have to not
do it. There is no self which is to come into existence up to the Day
of Rising but that it will come into existence.' "
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