\nNarrated Jabir:\n \n\nI was with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) in a Ghazwa, and when we returned, I wanted to hurry, while riding a slow \ncamel. A rider came behind me. I looked back and saw that the rider was Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) . He said (to \nme), "What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, "I am newly married." He said, "Did you marry a \nvirgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin but) a matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young \ngirl with whom you could play and who could play with you?" Then when we approached (Medina) \nand were going to enter (it), the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait till you enter (your homes) at night (in the first \npart of the night) so that the ladies with unkempt hair may comb their hair, and those whose husbands \nhave been absent (for a long time) may shave their pubic hair." (The sub-narrator, Hashim said: A \nreliable narrator told me that the Prophet (ﷺ) added in this Hadith: "(Seek to beget) children! Children, O \nJabir!")\n

\nNarrated Jabir:\n \n\nI was with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) in a Ghazwa, and when we returned, I wanted to hurry, while riding a slow \ncamel. A rider came behind me. I looked back and saw that the rider was Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) . He said (to \nme), "What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, "I am newly married." He said, "Did you marry a \nvirgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a virgin but) a matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young \ngirl with whom you could play and who could play with you?" Then when we approached (Medina) \nand were going to enter (it), the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait till you enter (your homes) at night (in the first \npart of the night) so that the ladies with unkempt hair may comb their hair, and those whose husbands \nhave been absent (for a long time) may shave their pubic hair." (The sub-narrator, Hashim said: A \nreliable narrator told me that the Prophet (ﷺ) added in this Hadith: "(Seek to beget) children! Children, O \nJabir!")\n

\nحَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، عَنْ هُشَيْمٍ، عَنْ سَيَّارٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، قَالَ كُنْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي غَزْوَةٍ، فَلَمَّا قَفَلْنَا تَعَجَّلْتُ عَلَى بَعِيرٍ قَطُوفٍ فَلَحِقَنِي رَاكِبٌ مِنْ خَلْفِي، فَالْتَفَتُّ فَإِذَا أَنَا بِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ مَا يُعْجِلُكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ إِنِّي حَدِيثُ عَهْدٍ بِعُرْسٍ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَبِكْرًا تَزَوَّجْتَ أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَهَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ فَلَمَّا قَدِمْنَا ذَهَبْنَا لِنَدْخُلَ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَمْهِلُوا حَتَّى تَدْخُلُوا لَيْلاً ـ أَىْ عِشَاءً ـ لِكَىْ تَمْتَشِطَ الشَّعِثَةُ وَتَسْتَحِدَّ الْمُغِيبَةُ ‏"‏‏.‏ قَالَ وَحَدَّثَنِي الثِّقَةُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ فِي هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ ‏"‏ الْكَيْسَ الْكَيْسَ يَا جَابِرُ ‏"‏‏.‏ يَعْنِي الْوَلَدَ‏.‏